tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6043254908393241130.post1184296084004980492..comments2023-06-21T05:42:15.127-07:00Comments on Bloggin Instyle...now a family of three!: knowing your limits....StylinMomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235521717778992493noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6043254908393241130.post-45225356343493568062010-01-10T19:38:59.326-08:002010-01-10T19:38:59.326-08:00You made the right decision, otherwise you wouldn&...You made the right decision, otherwise you wouldn't have made it. I feel for you. We pulled ourselves out once, and it was the hardest thing about our adoption experience. After I hung up the phone I collapsed on the floor, sobbing hysterically. My poor husband! :) I kept saying, "What if we're walking away from a child we're supposed to love?" But it didn't feel right, and it wouldn't have been fair to the baby's mother to go any further once our trust had been broken. Every birth mother deserves to partner with PAPs who want to partner with her because of who she is, not just because they're desperate or exhausted or hopeless. (I know you're not! I'm speaking theoretically.) You'll know when it's right. P.S. It was good to hear from you again on my blog!Sally Bacchettahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14765341603688023981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6043254908393241130.post-65032692716500470202010-01-09T09:03:40.830-08:002010-01-09T09:03:40.830-08:00We didn't have to face any tough decisions bec...We didn't have to face any tough decisions because we were never shown or given possabilities before Rebekah found us! I imagine it is a very difficult battle in your heart.<br /><br />Keep holding strong, friend. <br /><br />I had to laugh at your references to hubby, because I alwyas have to do the same thing. I get way too emotional and caught up in stuff to think rationally sometimes. I am so thankful that God gave me a perfect balance in Ben. If not, who knows where I'd be, today! :)Rebekahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11920816691217676013noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6043254908393241130.post-41445697697463901032010-01-09T05:59:10.562-08:002010-01-09T05:59:10.562-08:00I know exactly what you mean...you are so ready to...I know exactly what you mean...you are so ready to say yes to a baby, but you know in your heart that a particular situation isn't for you. It happened to us twice. It stinks, but that's why they make us decide most of these things BEFOREhand, so we're not making a decision off our emotions. You were strong to do what you knew was right...keep hope! Yours is right around the corner! ((HUG))Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12090421642577437909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6043254908393241130.post-50108313183973802502010-01-08T13:41:23.117-08:002010-01-08T13:41:23.117-08:00{{Hugs}}{{Hugs}}Giantspeedbumphttp://www.loveyoualready.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6043254908393241130.post-11375817363066540162010-01-08T12:34:03.322-08:002010-01-08T12:34:03.322-08:00Only the two of you can know what's right for ...Only the two of you can know what's right for you. I had a "situation" to make a decision about a few months back, and it turned out that the RIGHT parents for that baby (which wasn't us) came forward and it all worked out. Praying the same will happen for this little one!Dana/WiredDesignhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02727764505486477003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6043254908393241130.post-45523962230004818572010-01-08T10:50:00.209-08:002010-01-08T10:50:00.209-08:00You are in my prayers!!You are in my prayers!!Mandy @ The Party of 3https://www.blogger.com/profile/07341085427395561725noreply@blogger.com