tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6043254908393241130.post2826262588951490912..comments2023-06-21T05:42:15.127-07:00Comments on Bloggin Instyle...now a family of three!: melt down and movin forward.....StylinMomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235521717778992493noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6043254908393241130.post-3308132919713253282009-07-14T10:05:01.073-07:002009-07-14T10:05:01.073-07:00I don't know if this will make you feel better...I don't know if this will make you feel better but I am from the boston massachusetts area in the states and have been waiting to be matched for about 2 and a half years. Our agency is flabergasted as to how slow it is in our area as well.<br /><br />I have been to a couple of workshops at our agency and they keep saying that it is very slow and they don't know why.<br /><br />I totally feel for you. I also have not discussed my feelings openly and many people have said some very hurtful things unintentionally. I think people just don't get it unless they have lived it.<br /><br />take care and know that you are not alone<br /><br />ElenaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6043254908393241130.post-4979116187987852872009-07-14T09:18:22.435-07:002009-07-14T09:18:22.435-07:00It's frustrating when people are insensitive o...It's frustrating when people are insensitive or ignorant of other's feelings or situations. I am totally with you - how could it be different? You are both going through the same journey, I wonder why your co-worker said that? Strange.<br /><br />But that's great about the new social worker! I am sure things will look up for you!Dionnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03952469911180442104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6043254908393241130.post-51689400567064532812009-07-14T06:49:28.171-07:002009-07-14T06:49:28.171-07:00I am sorry things are going so hard for ya right n...I am sorry things are going so hard for ya right now. I definitely think that sometimes we put up such a facade to make everyone else think it's ok that we truly convince them that it is....you are just such a good actress! LOL Just let everyone see that you are human and that it hurts you, too, and they will give you the same support and consideration that they would normally give someone. They just think you don't need it now...but really you do, and that's ok. <br /><br />Good luck with the new lawyer! Can't wait to hear that goes. I totally agree with you-I would be seeking out some other avenues as well. <br /><br />EricaEricahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14367869589191981037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6043254908393241130.post-86704625045469236502009-07-14T03:06:24.554-07:002009-07-14T03:06:24.554-07:00sending my love and support across the miles, deio...sending my love and support across the miles, deion having swine flu has turned life upside down but i am trying to keep up, have a good week sal xSally's Worldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01416164953787994180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6043254908393241130.post-54773311299989383722009-07-13T21:16:52.995-07:002009-07-13T21:16:52.995-07:00Ugghh!! Sorry to hear that you are having a rough...Ugghh!! Sorry to hear that you are having a rough time!! I think that with going other routes you have to just follow your heart. Do your research and if something feels right, go with it. I agree with you that if you act as if all is going to be ok, people won't get that it is difficult. <br /><br />It is walking a strange line. On one hand, you want people to GET that it is a tough road with lots of ups and downs and while their sensitivity is welcomed, you don't want their PITY. It is a thin line...<br /><br />good luck with whatever comes of the lawyer meeting...Brihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15827049920771791750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6043254908393241130.post-79806161661322406832009-07-13T20:36:43.203-07:002009-07-13T20:36:43.203-07:00Oh geez, what a day. I am getting to the same poin...Oh geez, what a day. I am getting to the same point as you. I'm tired of pretending like everything is peachy because it's not. I can't imagine your frustrations at not being shown. I hope that you're able to find another path to make your way to baby. Hugs M :)RBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17739978478314076003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6043254908393241130.post-35494908633158164522009-07-13T20:18:58.067-07:002009-07-13T20:18:58.067-07:00Man do I understand what you're saying. I cam...Man do I understand what you're saying. I came to the same place you did about being real with how much I was hurting. It was about that time we sent out a "here's what we're doing, if you know anyone" letter to everyone we'd ever met and I included my blog address in the letter. It felt weird at first because my bog is son intimate...and personal. But it sure made it easier knowing that everyone in my main circles KNEW what I was dealing with - on a day-to-day basis (depending on how often I blogged).<br /><br />We also contemplated an additional agency after 5 months of no showings...but it was all so expensive. We went the networking route instead. I do know lots of couples hire an additional agency. If you can swing it, it definitely can't hurt!<br /><br />I'm sorry that you're still on the rollercoaster. One day we'll rejoice together in your news...<br /><br />Don't give up.Rebekahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11920816691217676013noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6043254908393241130.post-57131212383530778862009-07-13T17:59:57.165-07:002009-07-13T17:59:57.165-07:00Sorry you are having such a hard time lately...it ...Sorry you are having such a hard time lately...it just plain sucks! I do think it's good that you are being more honest though, and letting people see a bit more of the real side of things. It is so hard to resist the temptation to put a happy face on everything. <br /><br />Good luck with the new lawyer, I think it sounds like the right thing to do given the state of things where you live. <br /><br />Hang in there and best of luck!<br /><br />MelbaMelbahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16058896619253076094noreply@blogger.com