Tuesday, April 14, 2009

put a cork in it....lady!

A client asked me today if we had heard anything.....I of course said "no, nothing we are still waiting....but that's okay we are being patient the right situation just hasn't come about yet"(as you can see I was having a good day).....she replied with........gosh "why won't anyone pick you guys....like is there something wrong with you"..........

So there you have it..........the reason my day went down hill from that moment on........for the life of me I can't figure out why the people that are the closest to you, the people that you want to talk about this with..don't talk about it....but the idiots, the people you don't even give a shit about say the absolute most hurtful things.........I just don't get it!!

For the life of me.....I am having a really hard time right now figuring this whole thing out....I do believe everything happens for a reason and that everything will work out...and I do know how lucky I am.....all the blessings I have already been granted in my short life.....but what gives....this is just nuts!!!

m :)

***an addition to this post....after reflecting on this post that I put up last night, I want to clarify something....in this post I made a comment "people that I don't even give a shit about"...well I do give a shit or I wouldn't be so hurt....my clients mean alot to me....I don't want any of you reading this to think that you are not important....I share things with you, just like you do with me. Yesterday I was sad and hurt by this particular women's comment....that doesn't mean I don't like talking about this adoption at work because as I have told many of you, I really like when you ask me questions..I love having all of your support..so please don't stop...:)

xoxo

8 comments:

Yaya said...

Seriously. What the $%^*^ is wrong with some people??!

Jamie D said...

ppl are idiots...

im curious as to how her hair looked after you were done with her though :|

Bert said...

there is NOTHING wrong with you... and your time WILL come!

don't let the bastards get ya down... right???

xoxoxo

BB said...

What an outlandish comment. It is amazing the things people say.

When you think of all the people that actually are out there waiting to adopt, for the most part they are the same. Financially stable, family oriented, stable relationship. It is the little tiny things that people will connect with. It just hasn't been your baby yet. He/she is out there in due time!!!

Rebekah said...

I'm sorry...people say stupid things, plain and simple. Unfortunately, that part never changes. We're matched and we're still getting stupid comments! I can only imagine what they're going to say when we have are carting a son around who doesn't look anything like us!

Hang in there...

the "mom" said...

hang in there.....
unless people walk in the same shoes as you they have no idea what it is like...and therefore people just say stupid things.
trust me.... not everyone has been divorced or a single mom and I have experienced those stupid comments and responses from my own family or family in laws (ex). if they have a simple life you get simple comments....
ps.... i will try harder to talk about it too!!! let's chat on the 28th when i come to get highlights!! love ya

Brooke said...

i'm sorry...i just don't understand people sometimes.

Dionne said...

I totally understand how you feel. People who have no idea about the complexities of your life feel like they can input whatever they want. They are so thoughtless.