Sunday, March 7, 2010

limbo land....see you later........

Wow I didn't realize how long it had been since I last posted!! It has been a great, but very very busy last few weeks!

We had a wonderful vacation....filled with lots of relaxing...too much food, some great chats and good old beach time!! We couldn't have asked for better weather and everything including our flights (minus not getting our luggage on our way home back for a few days) was perfect!! As I said we did a ton of "regrouping" while we were away!!

It is funny how even though you see each other everyday....you sometimes need time away from everything to be able to sort life out........to really have the time to talk without any interruptions....and that is what we did! I suppose T might say "wow that was alot of talking" lol

So here is what we came up with.....it is time to put adoption on the back burner...........I'm exhausted....which makes T exhausted........I'm so tired of this consuming my every thought and move........I really can't do it anymore.....I have come to the conclusion that I need to move on.....this doesn't mean that we are giving up....not at all, our profiles are still with our different agencies and if something is meant to be it will be so awesome, but I am going to take a step back.........I need to get my life back...not be so vocal about everything...I just can't let it consume me anymore......
This life of limbo has to stop.....so that is what we are going to do.....move ahead with our life....I have plans for my business, we would like to move within this year.....and I think we are going to get a new addition to our little family........a DOG..........now I can see about 8 faces just about dying of shock......haha...........so I am going to end this post right now just so I can hear all these predictable.....absolutely hilarious comments......tomorrow I will be back with some more details!!!!! lol lol

later folks.....
m :)

8 comments:

RB said...

I think getting a dog is a great idea! It may be just what you need to regroup and refocus. I've been a terrible commenter lately but I have been following still. Thinking of you m :)

Rebekah said...

TOTALLY understand. It's the only way to survive. I hope you'll keep up the blog so we can still peek into your life and see how you're doing. I would miss you terribly if this was goodbye!

Sarah Darling said...

dying about the dog - YOU a dog?? I didn't really think you were a pet person. Get a purse puppy at least. And a word of advice. Tom and I got our Sheltie Alex when we were thinking about adoption and he's a pain in my ass now that I have kids. I want a little Maltipoo in the worst way but Tom won't budget until Alex goes to doggy heaven - could take years!!! Anyway, the dog being a puppy when we got him was good practise for being a mom - he kept me up at night, peed on the floor and generally drove me crazy!!!! Ha ha, have fun with that advice!!

Melba said...

To me, it's no coincidence that DOG spelled backwards is GOD! :)

I wish you peace with your decision to let go and try to get your life back on track. It is a difficult point to reach but there definitely does come a time when you have to take the reins again.

I also second everything Rebekah said! :)

Melba

Anonymous said...

My brother has a dog and you should really think long and hard before you make that decision. A dog really ties you down, big time. Plus, what are you going to do with a puppy all day while you are both at work? It can be mean to leave a puppy/dog locked up for hours on end. In theory, it sounds like a good idea....but really think first. Maybe borrow a dog from a friend for a weekend and see what you think. A puppy is a ton of work to train....it will keep you up at night, pee every where in your house, etc. Hopefully it works out for you!!

jmooredmfuels said...

Hey Sis, A DOG.......WOW didn't see that coming, I think it would be great!

the "mom" said...

go for it.. it pure and simply
LOVE!

Sheila's 2010 Adventures said...

I too am a little shocked but think it is a great idea! A dog and moving is a lot to do and look forward to!